Five years doesn't seem that long ago. The year 2005 held some unexpected surprises for me. The beginning of that year, I starting running because I hit the heaviest weight of 180. From January to April, I had lost 20 pounds. That May, my then new-found friend, Shannon, moved to Missouri. We hung out almost all the time when she lived here. I remember playing lots and lots of volleyball...and knitting a lot too. We created friendships at Smiley's Coffeehouse, including my now-husband, Eric. We always had a good time. But like I said, she moved.
It was that summer where I would occasionally see Eric and I would always want him to open up to me more....just as friends. He would call me late at night just to talk because he couldn't sleep or some excuse like that. That July, I expressed my feelings to Eric (very forward, I know). Even though he shot me down, I never let it affect my friendship with him. He was/is a great guy to hang out with and fun to be around. We ended up calling each other more frequently and hanging out more often throughout the month of August. Then, I think it hit him like a ton of bricks....he finally told me that he had a crush on me on Labor Day (September 5th).
September happened way too fast for me that I may not have the timing right. (I'm looking at that year's calendar right now.) September 10th - 13th, I was in Nashville for my work's tradeshow. I remember talking to Eric on the phone during every break I could get. When I got back, he left a gift for me by my front door....socks. Don't ask me why because I seriously forget the reason behind that. But I remember the feeling I had when I saw him for the first time. I was elated and on cloud nine. On the 15th or 16th, I remember having dinner with my dad and my stepmom, Connie. I brought Eric along and they got to meet him for the first time. My dad gave him a hard time like he would with any of my friends. And Eric was nervous as all get out! Then the 17th was our very first date. Eric's plan was to take me to Maggiano's in Tampa but the wait was 2 1/2 hours and he also didn't expect the price to be THAT high. So we opted for the Cheesecake Factory. I don't know why but I had a disposable camera with me and I had our waiter take our picture. That picture is framed and in our house.
Then tragedy happened in September. I got a call really late on the 24th that Connie was in a severe car accident; to the point that it ignited a fire. She was rushed to Tampa General because they have the best burn unit. Long story short, Connie passed 5 days later, the 29th. Writing this, I know it came about abruptly but I'd rather not focus on her passing. I have very fond and memorable moments of our time together and that's what I'll hold onto. While she was in the hospital for those 5 long days, I never saw her. My dad kinda didn't want me to because he wanted me to remember her alive, vibrant and beautiful and I respected his wishes.
I mainly brought Eric into this story because he was someone I could lean on during that time. He probably didn't know what to say but the fact that he was always there meant a lot to me. So five years ago, I lost someone very close to me. But as you can see, God was preparing a lifetime friend to help me cope.
Praise the Lord!